Members Dream Meaning and Resolve for Getting Lost
DREAM ISSUE: This dream was aimed at helping you gain insight into a current problem relating to a relationship with a person of your own gender.
It is likely that this difficulty (in a broader sense) is one that has been long standing in your life. It is a problem which comes up often. It is also one which you solve adequately; but your dream is telling you that a better resolution is possible. It must be noted that the images in your dream should contain quite a number of useful associations (those which will help you with the issue at hand).
SUGGESTED EXERCISE: How does this dream relate to a struggle you had with your father during grade school. Be specific please. How might your father have resolved this difficulty better? Knowing this; how might you alter your perspective on the current dream issue?
In a way, this dream may have been a reward you were offering yourself for a job well done! Let yourself enjoy the sense of pride you may feel about this. The above suggestion should help you figure out just exactly what you are rewarding yourself for. Accepting almost all of your associations (both positive and negative) while working on the exercise will facilitate your progress. See if you can weed out exactly where the negative associations are coming from so that you can use this material most productively towards progress on your dream issue.
Before the dream you were approaching this with both your intellect and your emotions. While this is an ability to be admired, it is usually better to concentrate on applying your intellect to this particular type of problem. If success does not visit you after some time then you might reconsider and take a more emotional approach.
It should be relatively easy to gather your intellectual energy for working on this task. With this issue, you should really take advantage of the fact that writing human thought down enhances it's organization.